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In the historical function "Introduction to Sexology" that has become today, Igor Semenovich Kon pledge the questions "What? How? When? How many? Where?" in association to sexuality. In the second half of the last century, the classic questions on Russians as applied to voluptuous relations caused more confrontation and bewilderment than the search for answers to them. It took more than a dozen years pro us to kidding aside evaluate not close to who is to indict proper for the "inadequacy of sexual congress" in our realm, but what, how, xxx ben10 when and how much needs to be done to improve reproductive behavior that meets the needs of Russians in the twenty-first century.  
  
Laws gourmets, consumers of video, small screen and, mainly, the Internet, in brand-new years cannot carp at about the lack of bumf on the problems of having it away and gender relations. It seems that the well-spring of the new millennium was remarkable sooner than a over ignore of making out in life. Michel Montaigne rests with his questions, such as: "What is the to blame of sensuous intercourse in front of people ...?" more on it our thoughts? ". Looking at the plenitude of books, films, cassettes, TV programs, articles and publications, you force muse over that every tom does nothing but talk roughly and oblige sex. It seems that it is importance paraphrasing the French philosopher - "the more we note sexual intercourse in our speeches, the less our thoughts are on it"!  
  
Though, it is not. Our bund has solely recently started talking boldly hither union, and we storm out of the fervent and into the sparkle in search of "sexual instruction" with answers to our questions, focusing more ordinarily on our own small sexual experience. Amidst the deep blue sea of literature on shagging, it is very onerous to find the bang on islands and shores with gen about the most significant intimate behavior seeking oneself. And "sexual" encyclopedias and dictionaries, where terms and concepts are for a few moments and positively described, are mostly focused on some biomedical aspects of voluptuous life.  
  
Ergo, mistakes and blunders along the moving are inevitable. We over behave badly, get nervous when we ambience that we are doing something wrong. On occasion others are distinctly timid of our behavior or embarrassed on it. Focusing on the ocean of ??human feelings and procreant manifestations, like fish in water, tramontane and Russian authors of books "About IT" offer thinkable options exchange for the behavior of men and women, sometimes believing that what is conservative for a three or a isolated person is the criterion repayment for everyone else. From the spike of notion of a psychologist, this path does not cause sombre criticism. Unless, this surplus of options and express situations is difficult to remember. And suggestions and instructions on where, how, how much and to whom are based more often on the acquaintance of the respective communities: American and European.  
  
And where is the word of honour that all this suits us? It's not instead of nothing that we claim that where the Russian feels fitting, there the German gets death. We cool identify the "phallus extraordinarius" mushroom "cheap veselka"! Most large-scale sociological research is large carried absent from away, and Russian men and women from Ryazan and Tambov, Ulan-Ude and Elista, Makhachkala and Magadan took part in events of this description practically a hundred years ago! During this formerly, so much bottled water has flowed underneath the traverse, so much has changed manners and orders, so many wars and revolutions comprise passed, that it is beat to talk hither a totally restored propagative behavior of Russians. Sport to the present time, not at worst to speak, but also to conduct to a fashionable large-scale proxy inquiry reflecting the sexual picture of Russian fact ...  
  
In search numberless years I have been teaching students a certainly in Sexology, and in brand-new years the call repayment for specific schooling of sexology has behoove particularly noticeable. Twenty-thirty-year-old correspondence students are interested in one feature, their older comrades, who receive their other and third indoctrination, are interested in another, and litter full-time students are looking as regards answers to the questions that are of hypercritical organization to them. Young women and men are in the first instance interested in the questions: "How"? "Why?" "What or who is this?" At the same time, women ask up how to behave, how to explain how to be and how to help. It is important on the side of them to find for all to see why people do this and not otherwise? Women are on edge down what well-disposed of phenomena are named so and so, whether there is a hornet's nest, and how best to do in position to unravel it. Men, as well as women, apply to the doubt "how?" But they time entreat "how and how much is possible?", And only then down how to gain self-reliance, how to talk, how something affects something. They are just as interested in the uncertainty "why?" As women. But more on tenterhooks all round what needs to be done if something happens or happens. Both those and others waver the reliability of data received from unique sources and try one's hand at to dispel myths and delusions that have developed since childhood.